7 min Medium None
Yes, but → Yes, and
Two rounds — feel the difference.
Shows how blocking vs building feels in real time.
Instructions
Pairs plan something (e.g. a party). Round 1: every reply starts with 'Yes, but…'. Round 2: same plan, but 'Yes, and…'. Short debrief on what differed.
Classroom timer
7:00
Best used when
Before group work or after conflict.
Variation
Small groups of 4 — even more visible.
Time
7 min
Noise
Medium
Prep
None
How did it go?
Quick evaluation — helps you find what works again.